This article aims to unravel the complex negotiations surrounding
property settlements and custody in cases of divorce in customary
courts in Botswana today in the light of an earlier legacy of penalising
divorce initiators. It argues that women’s attempts to get their husbands to
initiate divorce proceedings can entangle women in lengthy negotiations
and ultimately frustrate the aim of achieving a divorce. Repeated court
hearings can last for years, we show. At the same time, in Botswana’s
statutory courts today, an equal division of property irrespective of the
causes of marital breakdown has become established practice. In the article,
we aim to show that customary laws regarding property settlement
in divorce have indeed changed, gradually adjusting to notions of equity
in women’s rights in marriage, in response to a wider ideological, critical
movement, even though chiefs or headmen presiding over customary
courts do not always explicitly acknowledge this change.