Road traffic injuries remain a major challenge in low- and middle-income countries, where proactive road safety auditing is limited by incomplete crash records, shortages of qualified auditors, and the high cost of large-scale field inspections. To address this problem, we propose Expert-Grounded Distillation (EGD), a novel artificial intelligence framework that transfers institutional road safety expertise into a compact vision-language model for scalable visual road safety auditing. The key innovation is a quantified expert-grounding stage in which the teacher vision-language model is calibrated against authoritative field audits. Large-scale annotation is permitted only after the teacher reaches substantial agreement with expert risk assessments (Cohen's kappa = 0.74). The calibrated teacher then generates structured supervision that is distilled into an 8-billion-parameter student vision-language model using Low-Rank Adaptation and a single leakage-free prompt. We also introduce Bangladesh Road Safety Audit (BD-ARSA), the first open, expert-grounded Bangladeshi visual road safety audit dataset containing 21,947 image-audit records with near-national coverage, and Expert-Grounded Road Safety Auditor (EG-ARSA), the first vision-language model developed specifically for this task. Experimental results show that grounded fine-tuning substantially improves ordinal risk assessment over the zero-shot baseline, while blind expert evaluation demonstrates that the compact student outperforms both its 31 billion-parameter teacher and Gemini-2.5-Flash. These findings demonstrate that EGD provides an effective and scalable engineering solution for proactive road safety auditing in resource-constrained environments.